Take Back Control of Your Relationship: Regain Your Power Today!
Hey sisters, feeling like you're not in control of your relationship? I totally get it, girl! But don't worry, I helped my friend get back in the driver's seat after she lost control of her relationship for years. And the best part? It's never too late to regain the power you thought was lost!
Regaining control in a relationship can be a challenging task, but it is possible with the right mindset and approach. According to relationship experts, setting boundaries, being consistent, and not playing games are essential steps to take to regain control in a relationship.
In an article published by Psychology Today, Dr. Susan Heitler suggests that setting boundaries is critical for maintaining power in a relationship. She states, "If your partner does something you don't like, and you don't speak up, you're essentially telling them that it's okay." By setting boundaries, you communicate your standards and expectations, which are crucial for a healthy relationship.
Consistency is another essential element in regaining control in a relationship. In an article published by Bustle, relationship expert and therapist, Kimberly Hershenson, advises, "Don't threaten to leave if you don't mean it, and don't make empty promises." Consistently following through with your words and actions builds trust and respect in the relationship.
Here are some tips to help you get back in control and own your relationship:
Don't settle for less: You deserve to be treated the way you want to be treated, so don't let your partner get away with anything less than what you deserve. Make it clear that you won't put up with anything that doesn't work for you, and don't be afraid to walk away if you have to. You're a powerful woman, so own it!
Be consistent: Don't make idle threats or use intimidation to try and win. If you say you're going to do something if boundaries are crossed, stick to your word. Be responsible for your actions and reactions, and you'll gain respect in your relationship.
Don't play games: Being in control isn't about playing mind games. It's about being strong, self-confident, and independent. Men respect a woman who knows her worth and doesn't compromise her values to keep someone else happy.
Control your emotions: When you stay calm and collected in the face of emotional triggers, you'll begin to gain control of yourself and your relationship. Texting or calling constantly, or losing control with outbursts, only shows that you're not in control of yourself. Keep your cool, and your mate will respect, love, and be faithful to you.
No man controls you: Remember that no one controls you, your future, or your emotions. You have the power to make decisions for yourself, and you should never compromise your values or desires out of fear of losing someone. If a man doesn't want to make you a priority in his life, it's time to move on.
If he wants space, give it to him: If your man says he's not ready for a relationship, he may mean he's not ready for a relationship with you. When you give him space, he'll either leave forever (good riddance!), or he'll realize what he lost and come back to you. Either way, you win!
And if you really want to kick things up a notch, my books are filled with tips and guided meditations to help boost your power, control, and desirability. They're "FOR WOMEN ONLY" and they'll have you feeling like a boss in no time!
