New Book: The Compatibility Test Is Here—Take the Quiz, Get the Truth

There’s a reason you keep attracting the same type of man in different packaging. There’s a reason he seems perfect one minute and disappears the next. And there’s a reason it all feels so confusing—until it suddenly makes sense. That’s exactly what happened for me, and what I’ve seen happen for countless women once they take the quiz inside The Compatibility Test.

This book has been years in the making—written for every woman who’s ever been ghosted, breadcrumbed, love bombed, or just completely blindsided by a man who swore he was “different.” It’s not about calling men out. It’s about decoding the patterns that keep us stuck—so we can finally break free.

Inside, you’ll find something that most books don’t give you: answers. Not vague advice, not outdated rules—but real insight into the ten male archetypes I’ve seen again and again in my work with women. From the Avoidant to the Romantic, the Provider to the Manipulator, these archetypes are more than personality types—they’re emotional blueprints. And once you know which one you’re dealing with, you stop personalizing the behavior. You stop over-giving. You stop trying to fix someone who was never capable of showing up.

The best part? This isn’t just a book about him. It’s about you, too. Because your archetype plays a role in who you attract, how you connect, and where you lose yourself trying to make something work. You’ll take two quizzes—one for him, one for you—and get a full compatibility breakdown that shows you where the chemistry is real, and where the crash is inevitable.

Whether you’re dating, married, healing from heartbreak, or just tired of wondering what went wrong, The Compatibility Test was written to give you clarity. It’s fun, it’s insightful, and it’s honestly a little spooky how accurate it is. But more than that, it’s empowering. Because once you see the pattern, you don’t chase it anymore. You choose differently.

If you’ve ever wished love came with a manual—this is the closest thing I’ve found. And I can’t wait for you to see yourself (and him) more clearly than ever before.

With love,
Lanie

The Compatibility Test Book

The Real Reason You’re Still Stuck (and How to Set Yourself Free)

You’ve read the books. You’ve made the vision board. You’re saying your affirmations like a full-time job… and yet, nothing’s moving. Still stuck in the same cycles. Still manifesting crumbs. Still wondering what the hell the hold-up is.

Here’s the truth: you can’t manifest a new future while dragging around an emotional junk drawer from the past.

Your energy might look high-vibe on the outside, but if you’re carrying around guilt, old heartbreaks, resentment, or fear—you’re jamming the signal.

You’re trying to launch a rocket… with the parking brake on.

The 3 sneaky things that block your manifestations:

1. Deep-rooted fear of being disappointed again

2. Secret belief that you’re unworthy or “too much”

3. Past betrayal you haven’t truly let go of

We don’t clear these things by just “thinking positive.” We clear them by facing them, feeling them, and then choosing not to carry them one second longer.

You don’t need to heal perfectly. You just need to unclog the pipe.

Here’s the wild thing: once you let go of that energetic sludge, things happen fast. The right man appears. The job offer comes. The money lands. Not because you forced it, but because you finally stopped resisting it.

You weren’t broken. You were blocked.

💫 Try This: Write a goodbye letter to the version of you who kept waiting, fearing, or settling. Burn it. Flush it. Rip it up with flair. Then say, “I’m done carrying what no longer fits.”

(It’s not a ritual. It’s a release.)

Yes, You Can Influence Him Without Speaking—Here’s How

No, it’s not witchcraft. And no, you don’t need to text him first. You’re already influencing him whether you mean to or not—because your energy doesn’t lie. It leaks.

Remote influence is real. And before you roll your eyes, remember this: Your thoughts are electric. Your emotions are magnetic. Put them together, and you’re basically a walking transmitter. He may not know why he’s thinking of you—but he is.

Here’s the wild part: you don’t even need to be in the same city (or on speaking terms) to shift how someone feels about you. Ever thought of someone, and they texted you five minutes later? That’s not coincidence. That’s quantum seduction.

Here’s how remote influence actually works:

• Your subconscious sends out a constant signal (even in silence)

• Emotionally charged thoughts carry frequency

• People pick up on these vibrations without realizing it

• You can train your focus to deliver the exact message you want them to feel

Basically, you’re always on the air. You might as well choose what you’re broadcasting.

What to send him energetically:

• "You feel drawn to me—and safe with me."

• "You can’t stop thinking about me, and it feels good."

• "You’re curious, open, and ready."

• "I’m unforgettable."

This isn’t about controlling him. It’s about activating desire and safety at the same time—a lethal combo.

💫 Try This: Close your eyes, picture him walking into your energetic field, and just feel how good it is to be near you. Hold it for 60 seconds. Let go. Watch what happens.

(Remember: You don’t need to chase when you can broadcast straight into his subconscious.)

How to Quantum Leap Into the Life (and Love) You Actually Want

Let’s get real. Sometimes, manifestation feels slow. Like you’re journaling your heart out, doing the vision boards, staying high-vibe… but life still looks suspiciously the same.

That’s when you don’t need more effort—you need a quantum leap.

Quantum leaping isn’t just a metaphor—it’s a real energetic and identity shift that lets you jump timelines and step into a new version of yourself. The version who already has the love, the money, the body, the life.

And no, it’s not woo. It’s not wishful thinking. It’s quantum alignment. It’s the collapse of time between your current self and your future reality.

✨ So what is a quantum jump?

It’s not just thinking positive or repeating affirmations. It’s shifting your frequency, your self-image, your entire energetic blueprint.

Instead of asking:
“How do I make it happen?”
You shift into:
“What would I be if it had already happened?”

That’s identity shifting—and when you lock into the vibration of the woman who already has it, you collapse timelines. You magnetize results faster. Reality responds.

💥 Why most people can’t leap (yet):

They try to leap without letting go.

They hold onto the past version of themselves—the one who’s broke, abandoned, unseen, heartbroken—and then wonder why nothing changes.

You can’t quantum leap while gripping fear, doubt, and emotional clutter.
You leap when you choose the new reality completely.

And that takes energy. Nerve. Frequency. Embodiment.

That’s why I wrote Quantum Leaping. Because this isn’t just about manifesting. It’s about becoming. About shifting into the timeline where you get what you want—without chasing, begging, or settling.

🔮 Inside the book, you’ll learn:

• What a quantum leap really is (and how to do it intentionally)

• How to use frequency shifting to change your circumstances

• How to break free from limiting loops and emotionally “lock in” to a new identity

• The power of energetic embodiment and acting from your future self

• How to collapse time and create a reality shift fast

• What to do when it feels like nothing is working

• The exact visualization rituals and mindset tools that I use and teach

This isn’t just about love (although it absolutely works for that).
It’s about leaping into the version of you who already gets everything she desires.

💖 Ready to jump?

You don’t need to earn it.
You don’t need to “align” for 30 more days.
You just need to choose the new frequency—and leap.

If you’re ready to move from stuck to magnetic, from hoping to having…

👉 Click here to read or listen to Quantum Leaping
(Or search “Lanie Stevens Quantum Leaping” on Amazon.)

✨ And Yes—This Is Just the Beginning...

I’ve got two more high-frequency, reality-shifting books dropping in the next few weeks—and they go even deeper.

Expect deeper seduction. More energetic control. Identity shifts you feel in your body.

Stay close.
You’re about to become unrecognizable (in the best way).

Start Here: You Don’t Chase—You Broadcast

💋 Blog Content:

Let’s be honest—blogs are supposed to be regular. Consistent. Predictable.
But if you’ve been here before, you already know—I don’t do predictable.

This space isn’t about following rules or posting weekly affirmations just because a calendar says I should. This space is for the woman who’s ready to change the frequency of her entire life. Who’s ready to stop chasing and start broadcasting. And who wants her energy to do the heavy lifting—whether she’s manifesting love, money, power, or her next obsession.

If you're new here, welcome. If you've been quietly watching for a while… I’m glad you're still here. Because what’s coming next isn’t basic.

We’re going deep into:

• The power of subconscious attraction

• The truth about feminine energy and emotional influence

• How to shift a man’s behavior without saying a word

• And why your vibe is the most underrated weapon you’ve got

Think of this blog as your secret vault of magnetic mindset shifts, rituals, spells, subtle seduction, and energetic upgrades. I’ll share tools, stories, truths, and sometimes the wild realizations that hit me mid-download.

This isn’t therapy. It’s transformation.
This isn’t hustle. It’s alignment.
This isn’t love advice. It’s frequency control.

I’ll keep the posts raw, real, and powerful—just like you.
Now let’s flip the script, raise the vibe, and become the kind of woman who doesn’t chase, doesn’t settle… and doesn’t wait.

Because the moment you broadcast the right frequency?
Everything—and everyone—starts coming to you.

The Power of Affirmations: Tapping into Your Subconscious Mind

Unleash Your Potential with the Power of Affirmations

Discover the incredible transformation that positive affirmations can bring to your life.

Unlock self-confidence, boost motivation, and embrace success with our carefully crafted affirmations. Whether you're striving for personal growth, inner peace, or a more positive mindset, our affirmations will be your guiding light. Harness the power of positive thinking today!

Hey there, fellow seekers of inner positivity! Have you ever wondered about the incredible potential of affirmations in your life? If so, grab a seat, because today, we're taking a deep dive into the world of affirmations. We'll explore what they are, how they influence your subconscious mind, and why listening to them can be your ticket to a more positive you.

Affirmations Unveiled

Let's start with the basics. Affirmations are like daily pep talks you give yourself. These are positive statements that you repeatedly say or think. Statements such as "I am confident," "I am loved," or "I am capable." They're like gentle nudges to your subconscious mind, guiding it towards more constructive thinking.

The Mysterious Subconscious Mind

Before we explore the wonders of affirmations, let's shed some light on your subconscious mind. Think of it as the backstage manager of your life, orchestrating everything behind the curtains. Your thoughts, beliefs, and habits are all under its influence.

Your subconscious mind doesn't evaluate or question; it merely absorbs what you feed it. And that's where affirmations come into play.

Affirmations and the Subconscious Mind

Now, here's where the magic unfolds. When you repeat affirmations, you're essentially sending direct messages to your subconscious mind. It's akin to reprogramming a computer with a new set of instructions.

Your subconscious mind doesn't question; it simply accepts. So, when you repeat, "I am confident," your subconscious starts to believe it. As it believes it, you begin to act in ways that align with that belief. You stand taller, speak up, and face challenges with newfound confidence.

The Science Behind Affirmations

But it's not all magic; there's science at play here. When you affirm positive statements, you stimulate neural pathways in your brain. This is known as neuroplasticity – your brain's ability to change based on your thoughts and experiences.

Each time you affirm something positive, your brain releases those delightful feel-good chemicals like dopamine. This reduces stress, amplifies motivation, and enhances your overall sense of well-being. Think of it as a spa day for your brain.

The Sweet Twist: Subliminal Affirmations While You Sleep

Now, let's dive deeper into the power of listening to affirmations, especially when you're in dreamland. Subliminal affirmations while you sleep are like the hidden gems of personal growth. Here's why:

1. Deep Access: When you snooze, your conscious mind takes a break, and your subconscious is wide open for suggestions. Subliminal affirmations slip past any resistance or skepticism you might have during waking hours.

2. Hassle-Free: You don't need to set aside extra time for affirmations. Just play them softly while you drift into dreamland, and let your subconscious do the heavy lifting.

3. Amplified Effect: Combining subliminal affirmations with your slumber maximizes their impact. Your brain is super receptive, and these positive messages sink in even deeper.

Making Affirmations and Subliminals Work for You

Ready to embark on your affirmation and subliminal journey? Here are some tips:

1. Consistency is Key: Keep affirmations and subliminals a daily ritual, just like your morning coffee.

2. Visualize Success: As you listen, imagine your life aligning with the affirmations. Picture your goals coming to life, even in your dreams.

3. Believe in the Process: Approach affirmations and subliminals with an open heart and a sprinkle of belief. Trust that positive change is possible, even as you slumber.

4. Craft Your Playlist: Mix and match affirmations and subliminals that resonate with your unique dreams.

Check out my 222 Recorded Affirmations and FREE Subliminals Today

Dealing with Negative Nelly: Tips to Maintain Your Positivity

don’t be like negative nelly

Negative Nelly sees the glass as half-empty, but to be fair, she's probably spilled half of it on her shirt. So, if you find yourself stuck with a Negative Nelly, just remember - she's not a villain, she's just a little rain cloud in human form

Negative Nelly, or someone who is consistently negative, can be a challenge to be around. Whether it's a friend, family member, or coworker, their negative attitude can bring down the mood and energy of those around them. Here are some tips on how to deal with a Negative Nelly:

1. Set boundaries - It's important to set boundaries with Negative Nelly to protect your own mental health and well-being. You may need to limit your time around them or avoid certain topics of conversation that tend to be negative.

2. Practice empathy - Try to put yourself in Negative Nelly's shoes and understand that their negativity may stem from personal struggles or challenges. Practice empathy and offer support or encouragement where you can.

3. Reframe their negativity - While it may be challenging, try to reframe Negative Nelly's negativity into a positive mindset. For example, if they're constantly complaining about their job, encourage them to focus on the positive aspects or find a solution to improve their situation.

4. Encourage positivity - Encourage Positive Polly behavior by leading by example. Share positive experiences, express gratitude, and focus on solutions rather than problems. Positive energy can be contagious and may help change Negative Nelly's outlook.

5. Address the issue - If Negative Nelly's behavior is impacting your mental health or relationships, it may be necessary to address the issue directly. Have a conversation with them, express how their behavior is impacting you, and offer support and resources to help them shift their mindset.

Dealing with Negative Nelly can be challenging, but it's important to set boundaries, practice empathy, reframe their negativity, encourage positivity, and address the issue when necessary. By focusing on solutions and positive energy, you can create a healthier and happier environment for yourself and those around you.

Not only are Negative Nellys unpleasant to be around but they can drain you quickly.  I have a friend who is the perfect example of one and she has the ability to drain me if I spend time around her.  It doesn't matter how positive and upbeat you are it is difficult to maintain under a constant barrage of negativity.  I suggest if you are unable to direct someone's attention to something positive that you disengage with them rather than poisoning yourself with their negativity.  Change your vibration and life by changing your thoughts.  Say to yourself hourly "Isn't life wonderful?"  Watch it change!

Why Forcing Commitment in a Relationship Can Be a Mistake

HOW TO GET A MAN TO COMMIT

Trying to force a man to commit is like herding cats. Men and commitment can be complex. Communication is key to ensure both partners are on the same page and respect each other's boundaries and pace. Here are some tips to get him to commit organically and if that doesn’t work click on the book link at the bottom of the page. ;-)

When it comes to relationships, there's often pressure to define and label the relationship, and to make commitments. However, forcing commitment can be a mistake that leads to disappointment and heartbreak. Here are some reasons why it's important to not force commitment:

1. It can create pressure and anxiety - Forcing commitment can create pressure and anxiety in the relationship, which can cause tension and stress. It's important to allow the relationship to evolve naturally, without putting undue pressure on yourself or your partner.

2. It can lead to dishonesty - If you or your partner feel pressured to make a commitment before you're ready, it can lead to dishonesty and resentment. It's important to be honest about your feelings and intentions, and to allow the relationship to progress naturally.

3. It can be a sign of compatibility issues - If you or your partner are not on the same page about commitment, it could be a sign of compatibility issues. It's important to have open and honest conversations about your expectations and goals for the relationship, and to make sure you're both on the same page.

4. It can lead to settling - Forcing commitment can lead to settling for a partner who may not be the best fit for you in the long run. It's important to take the time to get to know your partner and make sure that you're both compatible and share the same values and goals.

5. It can stifle growth - Relationships are dynamic and constantly evolving. Forcing commitment can stifle growth and prevent the relationship from evolving naturally. It's important to allow the relationship to grow and develop at its own pace, without putting unnecessary pressure on it.

Forcing commitment in a relationship can have negative consequences. It's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner, and to allow the relationship to evolve naturally. By taking the time to get to know your partner and allowing the relationship to progress naturally, you can build a strong and healthy relationship that stands the test of time.

You can use my secret technique Pussy Whip – Proven, Powerful “Secret” Technique Controls Your Man to get him to chase you and want commitment and it works much better than you handcuffing him to you and your relationship. Try a new tactic on him using the power of your mind and my secret technique and you will see a definite change in his attitude toward you and your future together. It’s never too late!

How to Use Remote Seduction to Attract Your Man: The Power of Visualization and Intention

DOES REMOTE SEDUCTION WORK?

Let's be real, being sexy remotely is like having a secret weapon in your relationship arsenal - it keeps things spicy and exciting, and gives you something to look forward to when you finally get to be together in person.

What is remote seduction?  It is a way to attract your man, or any man, without any contact whatsoever.  All it takes is the power of your mind, the ability to visualize and a little practice.  I wrote the book "How to Make Him BURN With Desire...Only For You and it explains in detail how to use remote seduction to attract your man.  The book uses a unique technique that assists you in attracting your "target".  Your target can be someone you know, an "ex", a stranger, a co-worker....absolutely anyone.

What is unique about my technique is that you will actually call your mate to you before beginning your remote seduction visualization.  Thoughts are very powerful and while most people don't realize it they have the power to attract many, many things into their lives.  One of them is a mate.  When you use the power of remote seduction your target will be attracted to you and drawn to you without you ever speaking to him.  He will think the ideas and thoughts are his own but they are thoughts that you have intentionally placed there with the power of your imagination and intention.

For instance, if there is a co-worker that you desire and he has paid no attention to you this would be the perfect technique for you.  Flirting is so obvious and it takes your power away from you to seem so available and be the initiator.  It is best to sit back, use the visualization and make him chase you.  And he will be unable to keep you off his mind.  He will find that he is drawn to you so powerfully that he is literally unable to resist.  You can be friendly, nice, cute, funny but not assertive.  He will be putty in your hands.  An "ex"....well he is toast when you use the technique because you have been intimate and already know how to push his buttons.  This is a great way to get him back and take back your power, especially if he was the one who broke off the relationship.

How to do it?  First, you need to be in a relaxed state of mind.  I MP3s to guide you and assist you in reaching the optimum state of mind.  Then you need to call him to you using the technique I write about in my books.  It gets his attention and he will immediately feel a strong and powerful thought and presence of you when you use it.  Next, you will visualize all kinds of intimacy with him.  Many readers have reported themselves having a pleasurable and spontaneous orgasm when they use the RS technique.  It is truly as if you are having a sexual encounter.  He feels it, too.  The power and intensity can be so strong and profound that it will feel real to you both.

What else happens?  Well ladies, when you use the remote seduction technique men from your past will feel it and frequently contact you, men that are not targeted will be drawn to you, actually men from everywhere will be at your beck and call.  Why?  As you raise your frequency and vibration you will attract men like you've never attracted them before.  It is as if you have the inner and outer glow that is achieved usually only after a sexual encounter.  You will have your choice of any man you desire by learning this unique way to seduce a man. If you want to attract a partner this is the absolute best way to get his attention. Plus, you can secretly do it 24/7 and no one will ever know. ;-)

Meditate Your Way to Weight Loss: How Mindfulness Can Help You Shed Pounds

Can meditation help you lose weight?

Losing weight is like finding money in your pocket that you forgot about - it's a pleasant surprise that makes you feel like you've hit the jackpot. Are you ready for the metamorphosis, where you transform from a chubby caterpillar into a beautiful, confident butterfly?

Meditation is a powerful tool that can help you achieve your weight loss goals. While it may not be a substitute for exercise or a healthy diet, incorporating meditation into your weight loss routine can provide a range of benefits that can help you lose weight and keep it off.

Here are some ways that meditation can help you lose weight:

1. Reducing stress - Stress can contribute to weight gain by increasing the production of the hormone cortisol, which can cause you to store more fat. Meditation can help to reduce stress and lower cortisol levels, making it easier to lose weight.

2. Mindful eating - Meditation can help you become more mindful of your eating habits, allowing you to make healthier choices and eat more mindfully. By paying attention to your body's signals of hunger and fullness, you can avoid overeating and make healthier choices.

3. Motivation - Meditation can help you to stay motivated and focused on your weight loss goals. By visualizing yourself achieving your ideal weight and feeling good in your own skin, you can stay inspired to make healthy choices and stick to your weight loss plan.

4. Self-awareness - Meditation can help you become more aware of your emotional triggers for overeating or making unhealthy food choices. By becoming more self-aware, you can learn to recognize these triggers and develop healthier coping mechanisms.

5. Better sleep - Meditation can help to improve the quality of your sleep, which can in turn aid weight loss. Poor sleep has been linked to weight gain, so by improving the quality of your sleep, you may find it easier to lose weight.

6. Boost metabolism - Some studies suggest that meditation can boost metabolism by reducing stress hormones and promoting relaxation. A faster metabolism can help you burn more calories and lose weight more effectively.

7. Enhance mindfulness - Mindfulness is a key aspect of meditation that involves being present in the moment and fully aware of your thoughts, feelings, and surroundings. By practicing mindfulness during meal times, you can enjoy your food more fully and avoid overeating.

Incorporating meditation into your weight loss routine can provide a range of benefits that can help you achieve your weight loss goals. From reducing stress and promoting mindful eating to increasing motivation and self-awareness, meditation can be a powerful tool for weight loss. So why not give it a try and see how it can transform your weight loss journey?

TRUE STORY

Lily had struggled with her weight and body image for years. She had tried every diet and exercise regimen imaginable, but nothing seemed to work. She felt stuck and hopeless, until she discovered the power of meditation.

Over time, Lily started to lose weight and regain her confidence. She realized that her weight loss journey was not just about physical changes, but about mental and emotional changes as well. She felt more connected to her body, and more empowered to make positive choices that supported her overall health and well-being.

Through meditation, Lily was able to let go of negative self-talk and limiting beliefs, and embrace a more positive and compassionate view of herself. She learned that true transformation came from within, and that by taking care of her mind and soul, she could achieve her physical goals as well.

From that day forward, Lily made meditation a regular part of her self-care routine. She continues to lose weight and gain confidence, and is able to live a healthier and more fulfilling life, both physically and mentally.

Meditation for Self-Love and Sensuality: Feel Sexy and Confident in Your Own Skin

How to feel sexy again…

Sexiness is fleeting. It's like trying to catch a butterfly with a net - you might get it for a moment, but it'll fly away soon enough. Some lucky folks are born with it, while the rest of us mere mortals have to rely on push-up bras and clever lighting to get by.

Meditation is a powerful tool that can help you feel sexy and confident in your own skin. By practicing meditation regularly, you can cultivate a deeper sense of self-awareness and self-love, allowing you to tap into your sensual side and feel more attractive and desirable. In this blog post, we'll explore some meditation techniques that can help you feel sexy and confident.

1. Practice Self-Love Meditation: Self-love is the foundation of feeling sexy and confident. By practicing self-love meditation, you can cultivate feelings of love and compassion towards yourself. Find a quiet place to sit and close your eyes. Take a deep breath and bring your attention to your heart center. Repeat the following affirmation to yourself: "I am worthy of love and affection, and I am attractive and desirable."

2. Use Sensual Visualization: Visualization is a powerful tool that can help you tap into your sensual side. Find a quiet place to sit and close your eyes. Take a deep breath and imagine yourself in a beautiful, romantic setting. Visualize yourself feeling confident and desirable, and allow yourself to connect with your senses. Imagine the softness of the fabric against your skin, the warmth of the sun on your face, and the scent of your favorite perfume.

3. Embrace Your Body: Feeling sexy and confident starts with accepting and embracing your body. Find a quiet place to sit and close your eyes. Take a deep breath and bring your attention to your body. Start at your toes and work your way up, noticing each part of your body and sending it love and appreciation. Repeat the following affirmation to yourself: "My body is beautiful and deserving of love and pleasure."

4. Focus on Your Breath: Focusing on your breath is a powerful way to calm your mind and tap into your sensual side. Find a quiet place to sit and close your eyes. Take a deep breath and focus on the sensation of the air moving in and out of your body. Allow yourself to relax and feel the sensation of pleasure and satisfaction with each breath.

5. Use positive affirmations - Incorporate positive affirmations into your meditation practice to boost your confidence and self-esteem. Repeat phrases such as "I am confident and sexy," "I love my body," or "I am worthy of love and affection." By repeating these affirmations, you can train your mind to focus on positive thoughts and feelings.

By practicing these meditation techniques regularly, you can cultivate a deeper sense of self-love, confidence, and sensuality. So why not start today and see how meditation can help you feel sexy and confident in your own skin?

TRUE STORY

Anna who had been struggling with a lack of sexual desire. She had tried everything, from therapy to medication, but nothing seemed to work. One day, a friend recommended that Anna try sexy meditations to help increase her sexual desire. Anna was skeptical at first, but decided to give it a try so she purchased a couple of meditations on my website.

As Anna continued to practice sexy meditations, she started to notice a significant increase in her sexual desire. She felt more confident and comfortable with her body, and was able to communicate her desires and needs to her partner. Her partner was thrilled with the changes in Anna, and they were able to enjoy a more fulfilling and satisfying sex life together.

Anna learned that sexy meditations were a powerful tool to help her connect with her body and increase her sexual desire. She realized that by embracing her fantasies and desires, she was able to fully enjoy and embrace her sexuality and for once in her life she was able to orgasm without faking it.

Subliminal Messages & Subliminal Meditations

Subliminal meditations are powerful …

Subliminal meditation is like trying to sneak vegetables into your kid's mac and cheese - it's a sneaky way to improve yourself without even realizing it. They are little love notes to your subconscious, telling it all the things you want it to hear, without any of the annoying backtalk.

In today's fast-paced world, people often find it difficult to cope with the stress and anxiety that comes with the daily grind. Many people turn to meditation as a way to alleviate these feelings and find a sense of inner peace. However, traditional meditation can be challenging for some people to practice regularly, which is where subliminal meditations come in.

Subliminal meditations are a powerful tool that can help people access their subconscious mind, allowing them to make positive changes in their lives. These meditations use special techniques to bypass the conscious mind and deliver positive affirmations directly to the subconscious mind. By doing so, subliminal meditations can help people reprogram their thoughts and beliefs, allowing them to overcome limiting beliefs and negative thought patterns.

One of the key benefits of subliminal meditations is their ability to help people improve their self-esteem and self-confidence. Many people struggle with negative self-talk, which can hold them back from achieving their goals and living their best life. Subliminal meditations can help people overcome this negative self-talk by providing positive affirmations that reinforce feelings of self-worth and self-love.

Another benefit of subliminal meditations is their ability to help people reduce stress and anxiety. Many people struggle with anxiety, which can lead to feelings of overwhelm and even panic attacks. Subliminal meditations can help people manage these feelings by providing calming affirmations that help to reduce stress and anxiety levels.

In addition to reducing stress and anxiety, subliminal meditations can also help people improve their focus and concentration. Many people struggle with distractions, which can make it difficult to stay focused and productive. Subliminal meditations can help people overcome these distractions by providing affirmations that help to improve focus and concentration.

Overall, subliminal meditations are a powerful tool that can help people achieve their goals and live their best life. Whether you're looking to improve your self-esteem, reduce stress and anxiety, or improve your focus and concentration, subliminal meditations can help. So why not give them a try and see how they can transform your life?

Navigating a Relationship with a Commitment-Phobe

Commitment Phobe

Commitment phobia is like trying to catch a greased pig with your bare hands - it always seems to slip away. People with commitment phobia find flaws in potential partners and are experts at the sudden disappearance act. That is until they encountered women who used the meditations in Pussy Whip.

Hey there, my sisters! Let's talk about dating a commitment phobe. I've seen firsthand how difficult it can be to navigate a relationship with someone who is afraid of commitment. But don't worry - there are ways to handle this situation with grace and self-respect. In this blog post, we will explore the reasons why some men struggle with commitment and offer tips on how to navigate a relationship with a commitment phobe.

Reasons Why Men May Struggle with Commitment

1. Fear of intimacy: Men who struggle with commitment may have a fear of intimacy. They may struggle to open up emotionally or fear being vulnerable with a partner.

2. Trauma or past hurt: Past relationships or experiences can leave emotional scars that make it difficult for men to trust and commit to a new relationship.

3. Independence: Some men value their independence and fear that a committed relationship will limit their freedom and personal growth.

4. Career or personal goals: Men may also prioritize their career or personal goals over their romantic relationships, making it difficult for them to commit to a long-term relationship.

How to recognize a Commitment-Phobe

1. The person who's been dating you for months but still won't change their Facebook status to "in a relationship."

2. The person who constantly talks about their "freedom" and how they don't want to be tied down, even though they're already in a committed relationship.

3. The person who refuses to make plans more than a week in advance, just in case they suddenly decide they're not feeling it anymore.

4. The person who freaks out at the mention of the word "marriage" and insists they're "not ready" even though you've been together for years.

5. The person who can't commit to a favorite color, let alone a serious relationship.

Dating a commitment phobe can be challenging, but it's important to remember that you're not alone. Be patient, communicate openly, and set boundaries that prioritize your own needs and happiness. If your partner is unable or unwilling to commit, know your own worth and don't settle for less than you deserve. Oh yeah, check out the guided meditation for “Commitment-Phobes” and get that ring on your finger.

moral of the story

It's a well-known fact that some men can be quite stubborn when it comes to marriage. They might resist the idea, drag their feet, and even run for the hills at the mere mention of the M-word. But then, somehow, they end up at the altar, exchanging vows with a look of mild terror in their eyes.

How does this happen, you ask? Well, it's like they're playing a game of chicken with the universe. They keep saying they're not ready for marriage, hoping that the universe will back down and leave them alone. But the universe is a sneaky little bugger and has a way of making things happen when you least expect it.

Maybe they meet someone who changes their mind. Maybe they have a sudden epiphany about the joys of commitment. Or maybe they just get tired of being the only one at the bar without a wedding band. Whatever the reason, they finally cave in and say "I do." Remember you have he power to change the commitment-phobe with patience, perseverance and a lot of mental influencing.

Watch Out for Love Bombers: How to Spot and Protect Yourself from Manipulative Relationships

What is a love bomber?

Love bombers are like someone trying to win a marathon by sprinting the first mile - sure, they might be ahead for a little while, but eventually, they'll burn out and fall behind. Check out the meditations on Pussy Whip 2 for a love bomber meditation that is literally THE BOMB!

Hey there, my sisters! Let’s talk about love bombers. It's a term that's been thrown around a lot lately, but what exactly does it mean? Let's take a closer look.

A love bomber is someone who showers you with love and attention at the beginning of a relationship. They may seem too good to be true, and that's because they usually are. Love bombers often use excessive flattery and gifts to manipulate and control their partner.

It's important to understand that a love bomber is not the same as someone who is genuinely interested in you and wants to make you happy. Love bombers are often trying to fulfill their own needs and desires, rather than building a genuine connection with their partner.

So, how do you know if you're dealing with a love bomber? Here are some signs to look out for:

• They move very quickly in the relationship, often professing their love within a very short amount of time.

• They shower you with gifts and excessive attention, making you feel like the center of their universe.

• They may use flattery to manipulate you, telling you what they think you want to hear in order to gain your trust and affection.

• They may become jealous or possessive early on in the relationship, making you feel like you can't talk to or spend time with anyone else.

If you think you may be dealing with a love bomber, it's important to trust your instincts and take action to protect yourself. Here are some steps you can take:

• Set boundaries early on in the relationship and stick to them.

• Pay attention to any red flags and take them seriously.

• Don't be afraid to walk away.

You deserve love and respect, and you have the power to create a healthy, happy relationship. Remember that healthy relationships are built on mutual respect, trust, and communication, and that you deserve to be with someone who treats you with kindness and respect. Be sure to check out the “Love Bomber” meditation. It’s the bomb! ;-)

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TRUE STORY

This is the story of a client in her 40s who fell in love with a man who turned out to be a love bomber and broke her heart. She met him through a mutual friend and was immediately attracted to his charming personality and good looks. They went on dates, exchanged sweet messages, and talked for hours on end. It felt like they had a deep connection and were meant to be together.

But things started to change when he started to push for a commitment too soon. He would constantly text her, showering her with compliments, gifts, and grand gestures. She felt overwhelmed and thought it was too good to be true. Her intuition was right.

Soon after, she noticed that he would disappear for days or weeks without any explanation. He would then return with apologies, promises, and excuses. She tried to understand and forgive him, thinking that he was just going through a tough time. She wanted to be there for him and support him, but his behavior became more erratic and unpredictable.

He would suddenly turn cold and distant, blaming her for his problems and accusing her of not loving him enough. He would threaten to leave her, then come back begging for forgiveness. She felt like she was walking on eggshells, never knowing what to expect or how to please him.

She realized that he was not in love with her, but with the idea of being in love. He was a love bomber, someone who uses extreme displays of affection and attention to manipulate and control their partner. He was not interested in her as a person, but as a source of validation and admiration.

It was a painful lesson to learn, but she decided to break up with him and move on. She realized that love should not hurt or make you feel small. Love should be mutual, respectful, and supportive. She also realized that she deserved better and that she could love herself first before loving someone else.

She learned that love is not just about finding someone who makes you happy, but about being happy with yourself first. She realized that she was already complete and that she did not need anyone else to validate her worth. She was enough, just as she was.

She learned that love is not a one-time event, but a lifelong commitment to growth and compassion. She decided to love herself first, to nurture her passions and dreams, and to surround herself with people who uplifted her and accepted her for who she was. She learned that love is not just a feeling, but a choice to be kind, honest, and forgiving.

She contacted me and I suggested she try the Love Bomber and Pussy Whip techniques on this Romeo and he slowly began to change. She couldn’t believe that she had the power and ability through visualization to change someone so dramatically. The last time I spoke with her they were moving forward with an engagement and setting a wedding date. She had a higher self-esteem than ever because during the entire ordeal she worked on issues she had about feeling she didn’t deserve the life she wanted. I hope to be invited to her wedding but more importantly the message is “you are not a victim because YOU are in control of your life”.

Unlock Your Miracle Mindset: How to Shift Your Thinking and Achieve Your Dreams

What miracle?

Don't let the past hold you back, unless you're trying to win a backwards race. It's time to live in the now and look forward to the future, because let's face it, the past is as useful as a parachute made of tissue paper.

Have you ever felt stuck in a rut, lacking motivation, and struggling to achieve your goals? It's easy to fall into a negative mindset and focus on the challenges and obstacles in your path. However, shifting your mindset to a miracle mindset can be a game-changer in your personal and professional life.

A miracle mindset is a way of thinking that focuses on positive possibilities and potential. It's about embracing a growth mindset and believing that anything is possible with hard work and determination. Here are some tips for cultivating a miracle mindset:

1. Believe in yourself, my sisters! You have the power to achieve incredible things in this life, so don't be afraid to dream big and aim for the stars.

2. Focus on the positive! Even when things get tough, try to see the good in every situation. When you shift your mindset to one of abundance and possibility, you'll be amazed at how much positivity comes your way.

3. Practice gratitude! Take some time each day to reflect on the things you're thankful for. Gratitude is an amazing tool for cultivating abundance in your life.

4. Set goals! When you have a clear idea of what you want to achieve, it's easier to take inspired action and make those dreams a reality. So, don't be afraid to set some big, juicy goals for yourself!

5. Trust the universe! Even when things don't go according to plan, trust that the universe has your back. Everything happens for a reason, and there's always a lesson to be learned.

6. Take inspired action! Follow your heart and take action towards your goals that feels good and right to you. When you act from a place of inspiration and intuition, amazing things can happen.

7. Take care of yourself! Self-care is essential for maintaining a positive mindset and cultivating a miracle mindset. So, make sure you're taking time to do the things that nourish your mind, body, and soul.

By cultivating a miracle mindset, you can overcome challenges, achieve your goals, and live a more fulfilling life. Remember that your mindset is within your control, and with a positive attitude and a willingness to take action, anything is possible.

TRUE STORY

A client named Sarah had experienced traumatic and painful events in her past. She had tried to move on, but the memories and emotions from the events continued to haunt her, holding her back from living her best life.

Sarah decided to try meditation (The Miracle Mindset Program) as a way to release the past and move forward. As she meditated, Sarah started to visualize the traumatic events from her past. She allowed herself to feel the pain and sadness that came with the memories, but instead of pushing them away, she acknowledged them and accepted them.

As Sarah started to visualize herself releasing the events, and letting go of the pain and sadness that came with them, she started to feel a shift in her emotions and her outlook on life. She was able to let go of the past and embrace the present moment. She felt lighter, more free, and more empowered to create the life she wanted.

Through meditation, Sarah was able to release the past and allow a transformation in her life. She learned that by accepting her emotions and acknowledging her pain, she could find peace and healing. She also learned that the power to change her life was within her, and that by focusing her intention and energy, she could create the life she desired.

Understanding What Men Really Want in a Relationship

Debunking Men's Unrealistic Expectations

Ladies, let's face it. Men can be demanding creatures, am I right? It's like they want us to be the perfect mix of Martha Stewart, Mary Poppins, Dr. Phil, Adriana Lima, and Beyonce all rolled into one.

But fear not, we're here to talk about what they actually want in a relationship. So sit back, relax, and let's dive into the minds of men. Trust me, it's not as complicated as you might think.

Hey there gorgeous sisters, let's talk about what men are really looking for in a woman. I know, I know, we've all been taught to believe that we need to change ourselves to fit the mold of what a man wants. But let me tell you something, that's not the case at all. Men want a woman who is confident, authentic, and unapologetically herself. So let's dive in and explore what men really want.

First and foremost, men want a woman who is confident. Someone who knows who she is, what she wants, and isn't afraid to go after it. Confidence is attractive, and it's a quality that men find irresistible. So, don't be afraid to be yourself and show the world what you're made of.

Next up, men want a woman who is independent. They want someone who has her own interests, hobbies, and goals in life. Being your own person is not only attractive, but it also makes for a healthy relationship. So go ahead and pursue your passions, it'll only make you more desirable to the right man.

Communication is key in any relationship, and men want a woman who can communicate effectively. They want someone who can listen actively, express themselves clearly, and resolve conflicts in a healthy and constructive manner. So, speak your mind and don't be afraid to let your voice be heard.

Of course, physical attraction plays a role too. Men want a woman who takes care of herself and is comfortable in her own skin. But let me be clear, this doesn't mean you have to look like a supermodel. It's about being healthy, confident, and comfortable in your own skin.

Trust is also crucial. Men want to feel like they can rely on their partner and that their partner has their back. Trust is the foundation of any healthy relationship, so make sure you're with someone who you can trust and who trusts you.

Intimacy is important too, both emotionally and physically. Men want to feel connected to their partner on a deeper level, and physical intimacy is a part of that. But emotional intimacy is just as important. Men want to feel like they can open up to their partner and share their feelings and vulnerabilities without being judged or rejected.

Now, let's talk about something that often gets overlooked. Men want a woman who is fun! Someone who can laugh, let loose, and enjoy life. So go ahead and let your hair down, be silly, and have a good time. It'll make you all the more attractive to the right man.

Last but not least, men want a woman who is loyal and committed to the relationship. They want to feel secure in the knowledge that their partner is fully invested in the relationship and won't stray.

So, there you have it ladies. Men want a woman who is confident, independent, communicative, physically and emotionally attractive, trustworthy, intimate, fun, and committed. But remember, you don't have to change who you are to fit the mold of what a man wants. Be yourself, and the right man will come along and love you for who you are — the beautiful person inside and out!

Why Men Cheat: The Truth Behind Infidelity

Why do men cheat on their wives?

Bad behavior from men is like a mosquito buzzing in your ear - annoying, persistent, and makes you want to swat them away. So, to all the men out there - if you want to avoid bad behavior, just remember the golden rule: treat others as you'd like to be treated, and don't be a mosquito. Check out my meditations to control bad behavior in men. You have the power to control a cheater — use it!

Cheating - it's a gut-wrenching issue that can tear apart relationships. As a relationship coach, I've seen the pain and destruction that infidelity can cause. And one of the questions that I get asked most frequently is, "Why do men cheat?" Well, let me tell you, there's no easy answer to that question.

Men cheat for all sorts of reasons, but the most common ones include a lack of emotional connection, sexual dissatisfaction, low self-esteem, opportunity, and avoidance of relationship issues. These reasons are all valid, but none of them justify cheating.

When a man cheats, it's like a punch in the gut for their partner. It destroys trust and causes immense pain. And let's be honest, cheating is a cowardly way to deal with relationship issues. It's a band-aid solution that doesn't actually fix anything. And worst of all, it can cause irreparable damage to the relationship.

But here's the thing – men who cheat aren't all bad. They're just human. They make mistakes, they have weaknesses, and sometimes they make the wrong choice. That's why it's so important to remember that infidelity is a complex issue that often has deeper underlying causes.

So, if you're a man who's feeling tempted to cheat, take a step back and think about why. Are you feeling disconnected from your partner? Are you struggling with your own personal issues? Whatever the reason, remember that cheating is not the answer. It's not fair to your partner, and it's not fair to yourself.

And if you're the partner of a man who has cheated, remember that it's not your fault. You didn't cause them to cheat, and you don't deserve to be treated that way. It's okay to feel hurt, angry, and betrayed. Take the time to process your emotions and seek support from friends, family, or even a therapist.

Cheating is a painful and complex issue that affects many relationships. Men cheat for all sorts of reasons, but none of them justify the pain and damage that infidelity causes. To all the sisters who have been hurt by infidelity, remember that you deserve to be treated with love, respect, and honesty. And remember, if you’re with a cheater, think someone may cheat or want to prevent cheating — check out my guided meditations for CHEATERS. ;-)

Surviving a Narcissist: Tips and Tricks for Keeping Your Sanity and Setting Boundaries

Narcissist Man Traits …

Why did the narcissist take a selfie at the gym? Because they wanted to flex their muscles and their ego at the same time! It's no secret that narcissists love to bask in their own glory and seek validation from others, but let's hope they don't pull a muscle from all that self-admiration. If you want to change a narcissist’s behavior check out the Pussy Whip 2 meditations!

Hey girlfriends, have you ever dealt with a narcissist? It's a tough and emotionally draining experience. Narcissists have this grandiose sense of self-importance, a need for constant admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. And let's not forget how manipulative and controlling they can be! But don't worry, in this blog post, we're going to explore some ways to deal with a narcissist and keep your emotional well-being in check.

First things first, it's crucial to recognize the signs of narcissistic behavior. When they don't get what they want, they might become defensive or even angry. And to get what they want, they might manipulate and control others. They don't care about other people's feelings or needs, only their own.

That said, one of the best things you can do is to set clear boundaries. Let the narcissist know what you're comfortable with and what's not okay. Be firm and assertive when doing so, and don't let them push you into something you don't want to do. And once you've established those boundaries, stick to them!

Another important thing to remember is to prioritize your own well-being. Dealing with a narcissist can be incredibly draining, so make sure you're taking care of yourself. That might mean going for a run, meditating, or hanging out with people who lift you up. Don't let the narcissist control your emotions or make you feel guilty for taking care of yourself.

Now, here's the thing - narcissists thrive on drama and conflict. So, it's best to avoid getting into arguments or power struggles with them. If you do find yourself in a disagreement, stay calm and stick to the facts. Don't let the narcissist twist the conversation to fit their own agenda.

In summary, dealing with a narcissist can be tough. But by recognizing their behavior, setting clear boundaries, prioritizing your own well-being, and avoiding arguments, you can protect yourself and maintain your emotional health. Remember, if you need professional support, there's no shame in seeking it out. You got this!

HOW TO TELL IF A GUY IS A NARCISSIST

1. The person who takes so many selfies, they start to think they're related to Kim Kardashian.

2. He can turn any conversation into a story about themselves, even if it's completely unrelated to the topic.

3. The guy is so obsessed with their appearance that they spend more time in front of the mirror than a teenage girl.

4. He thinks he’s the smartest, most talented, and most attractive person in the room -- and isn't afraid to tell you so.

5. They think they're always right, even when they're clearly wrong. It's like arguing with a brick wall, only less fun.

TRUE STORY

Meet Alex — the textbook narcissist. With his good looks, charm, and high opinion of himself, Alex had always been a magnet for attention. His girlfriend Emily was no exception. She found him incredibly attractive and exciting, but his constant self-centeredness was starting to take a toll on their relationship.

Alex's conversations mostly revolved around him and his accomplishments. He barely showed any interest in Emily's life or feelings. He criticized her appearance and even her intelligence, leaving her feeling small and insecure. Emily felt like she was walking on eggshells around him, always careful not to upset him.

One day, Emily had enough. She confronted Alex about his dismissive behavior and told him how she felt. But Alex being Alex, he became defensive and dismissive. He blamed Emily for being too sensitive and couldn't understand why she couldn't see how amazing he was.

Emily realized that she deserved better and decided to end the relationship, leaving Alex in shock. He couldn't believe that someone as amazing as him could be dumped by someone like her. He even said that to her face!

But after a few months of being alone, Alex started to realize that his narcissistic behavior had pushed Emily away. He knew that he needed to work on himself and change his ways if he ever wanted to have a healthy relationship. He sought therapy to work on his issues, not for Emily, but for himself.

Alex regretted losing Emily and realized that she was, in his words, the “love of his life”. He begged for her forgiveness and after a lot of effort, they reconnected and started dating again. This time around, Alex was a changed man. He learned to be more empathetic and considerate of Emily's feelings, and he let her be the center of attention occasionally. Though he still had his moments of self-absorption, he was committed to being a better partner and making the relationship work.

The moral of the story? Dealing with a narcissist can be tough, but it's important to set clear boundaries and prioritize your emotional well-being. Emily did just that and it turned out to be the best thing for Alex as well. After all, even a textbook narcissist can change with a little bit of self-reflection, effort and a few “secret” techniques thrown in. ;-)

Booty Call or LOVE?

LOVE vs LUST

A booty call is like ordering fast food - it's quick, easy, and satisfies a temporary craving. It's like a microwave meal, satisfying in the moment but ultimately unsatisfying in the long run. Love, on the other hand, is like a gourmet meal cooked with love and care. It takes time and effort to prepare, but the end result is something truly special and fulfilling.

Hey gorgeous ladies, let’s talk about something that's been on all of our minds at some point in time - the dreaded "booty call." You know the drill, he calls or texts you late at night, you go over to his place, and the next morning you're out the door without any further interaction. But here's the thing, some women think that this is the way to get the guy emotionally attached, but it's not. Trust me, some of the best "pure sex" does not lead to love, and some of the "least inventive" sex can lead to deep emotional attachment. It's all a matter of the heart.

I hear from my readers daily who want to know if they should continue having sex with their ex while trying to get a commitment out of him. Let me be real with you, if a guy has a willing sex partner who requires nothing more from him than a hookup, he'll take you up on that offer as frequently as he desires. If that's not what you're looking for, you'll have to decide if you want to continue being his friend with benefits. I know women enjoy the benefits as much as men, but if you're using sex as a way to get a commitment, you may want to rethink that decision.

Let me tell you a little story. I didn't see my love for an entire year after our four-year relationship crashed and burned. Why did we break up? Well, I think his freedom was too much of a priority, and he admitted it. I wasn't willing to be tossed aside only to get together occasionally for a sexual hook-up. Not for me, sorry. So we didn't talk for an entire year! No texts, no emails, no contact. I did, however, use my "secret technique" on him during that time to ensure that he didn't forget about me. Nothing wrong with some specific, directed thoughts that I knew he would receive. He proposed three weeks after we saw each other again!

Moral of the story? Don't settle for less than you deserve. If you break up, and he states clearly that he wants to continue with the "booty call" but nothing else, see it for what it is and break it off if you want more. There is nothing worse for your self-esteem than constant rejection and hoping for commitment. It is easier and healthier for you to be upfront with him and state what it is you need and desire. Hear what he has to say to you about your needs and don't filter it and only hear what you want to hear. If he says "I don't want a relationship," don't make excuses for him and turn that into "he loves me too much and is afraid." No! Take it as "I don't want a relationship....(maybe with you)." Yes, it hurts! But it's better to move on and find someone that does want a relationship with you.

Let's be real, most women can relate to the "booty call" boyfriend, and it leaves a very empty, vacant, low self-esteem feeling that can easily be recounted years later. However, we've all experienced the empowerment of not accepting less than we desire in our life, too. Is there anything better than taking back the control and moving on if that's what is necessary? Men, or people in general, will only respect you as much as you respect and honor yourself. Playing games isn't going to get you a strong, lasting relationship. Be honest, sincere and decide your course of action with your eyes wide open. "Booty Call" or significant other — you get to make that decision.

How to Make a Better Relationship

Visualize to make a better relationship…

Relationships are like a game of Jenga. The more bricks you remove without causing the tower to topple, the stronger the foundation becomes. Visualizing a good relationship is like trying to catch a butterfly with your eyes - it's elusive, but when you do see it, it's a beautiful sight to behold

Ah, relationships - the source of so much joy, frustration, and everything in between. If you're in a relationship, you know that it's not always easy. But here's the thing - visualization can help.

Visualization is a simple technique where you create mental images in your mind. And it's not just for athletes or meditation gurus - it can be a powerful tool for improving your relationship. By visualizing positive outcomes, you can train your brain to focus on the good in your relationship, improve communication, and even set goals for the future. Here are a few tips on how to use visualization to make your relationship better:

Imagine the Best-Case Scenario

• When we're in the midst of a fight with our partner, it's easy to get caught up in the negative. But if you take a moment to visualize the best-case scenario, you can start to shift your focus to the positive. So the next time you're feeling frustrated with your partner, try closing your eyes and imagining the two of you having a great time together. Maybe you're on a romantic vacation, or maybe you're just snuggled up on the couch, watching your favorite show. Whatever it is, try to really picture it in your mind and feel the emotions that come with it. The more vividly you can visualize it, the better.

Practice Empathy

• Empathy is key to any healthy relationship. But sometimes it can be hard to see things from your partner's perspective. Visualization can help with that. Try putting yourself in your partner's shoes and imagining how they might be feeling. Visualize a conversation where you really listen to what they're saying, and try to understand where they're coming from. This can help you see things from a different perspective and foster greater empathy in your relationship.

Set Goals Together

• Visualization can be a powerful tool for setting goals together as a couple. Imagine the kind of relationship you want to have in the future - what does it look like? What are the qualities that make it a great relationship? Once you have a clear picture in your mind, work with your partner to come up with concrete steps you can take to get there. Visualize yourselves working together towards these goals, and celebrate your progress along the way.

Use Positive Affirmations

• Positive affirmations are simple statements that you repeat to yourself to help shift your mindset. They can be a great tool for boosting your confidence and improving your self-esteem - and they can also help improve your relationship. Try repeating positive affirmations about your relationship to yourself each day. For example, "I am in a loving, supportive relationship," or "My partner and I communicate openly and honestly." The more you repeat these affirmations, the more they will become ingrained in your mind.

Visualization can be a powerful tool for improving your relationship. By imagining positive outcomes, practicing empathy, setting goals together, and using positive affirmations, you can create a mental blueprint for the kind of relationship you want. It's not a magical solution that will solve all your problems overnight, but it can help shift your mindset and improve your relationship over time. So give it a try - who knows, it might just be the thing that takes your relationship to the next level.

TRUE STORY

Alex and Jamie had been together for several years. However, their relationship had been going through a rough patch, and they were struggling to reconnect and find the spark they once had.

I told them about the power of visualization as a tool for improving relationships. She suggested to Alex that they try it together, and he was willing to give it a shot. They sat down together and closed their eyes, focusing on the image of their ideal relationship. They imagined themselves happy and in love, communicating openly and respectfully, and supporting each other in all aspects of life.

As they continued to practice visualization together, Alex and Jamie started to notice positive changes in their relationship. They were more affectionate and caring towards each other, and were able to work through their issues with greater ease and understanding.

With the help of visualization, Alex and Jamie were also able to reignite the passion and connection in their relationship. They felt more in tune with each other's needs and desires, and were able to create a stronger foundation for their love and sexual passion to grow.

Alex and Jamie realize that visualization has been a powerful tool for transforming their relationship, and they are grateful for the positive changes it has brought into their lives. If you can’t get your mate to visualize with you it’s okay because it still works if only you do the visualizing for the both of you. Entanglement in a relationship allows the other person to feel the shift in your attitude and theirs will shift, too.