Stages of a Relationship

everyone goes through them — what exactly are they?

Hey, remember those butterflies you had at the beginning of your relationship? Those "good old days" when you couldn't stop thinking about each other? Well, turns out there are stages to every relationship, and the sooner you understand them, the smoother your ride will be.

First up is the Obsession phase, where you're so into each other that you can't eat, sleep or think straight. Infatuation is a helluva drug, so don't go blurting out "I love you" too soon. Give it some time and space, so you don't come off as a needy, clingy type.

Next up is the Flaws phase, where you finally see your partner for who they really are - imperfections and all. It's normal to feel like you've been hoodwinked, but if they're worth it, stick with it! And don't try to hide your own flaws either. Just be yourself and take a few deep breaths when they irritate you.

After that comes the Compromise phase, where you both learn to live with each other's flaws and find a way to work through your differences. Communication is key, and don't forget that both of you need to compromise. Don't be a "giver" if your partner is a "taker", set those boundaries early!

Then there's the Comfort Zone phase, where you feel secure in your love and don't have to work as hard to keep the spark alive. But don't get too comfortable, or you might end up taking each other for granted. Keep things spicy with some sexy surprises, date nights or weekend getaways.

Last but not least is the Forever or Over phase, where you decide if you're in it for the long haul or if it's time to call it quits. If it feels right and you're happy, then yay! But if it doesn't feel right anymore, that's okay too. Don't feel pressured to stay together just because you've gone through all the stages. Take it at your own pace and enjoy the ride!