You've been cheated on before, but did you know there are ways to stop him from cheating again? Read these tips to help you keep your relationship strong. Stop your husband or boyfriend from cheating by learning how to spot red flags in his behavior and then using the signs to your advantage.

1. Don't be afraid to say "NO". If he's not willing to listen to you when you say no, then he probably won't respect you enough to follow through with what he says. Women who give their guys too much freedom and always say "YES" to whatever they want to do without question may be giving too much freedom.

2. Know his weaknesses. It's easy to spot his weaknesses, because he'll tell you about them. He might even brag about how good he is at something (like sex), so pay attention to those things. If his weakness appears to be attractive women or nights out with the boys you may have a potential cheater on your hands. If he talks about a female coworker too often there may be a crush happening. Put distance between your guy and all females with a secret technique.

3. Find out where he's been. If you suspect your partner has been unfaithful, ask questions. Don't just assume that he's cheating; find out for sure. Ask where he was last night, who he was with, what he was doing, and when he got home. Don't be afraid to be inquisitive because it not only shows you care but it tells him you're paying attention to what he does and who he does it with - VERY IMPORTANT!

4. Ask him about his friends. It's not uncommon for people to cheat because they're lonely. They might think that having an affair will make them feel better about themselves. Or maybe they're bored at home and looking for excitement elsewhere. Whatever the reason, if you suspect your partner is cheating, ask him about his friends. Again, it shows you're paying attention and you care.

5. Check his phone records. If you have access to his phone check to see who he's calling and how long the conversations last. If he has a lot of calls with other women, then he probably isn't being faithful. Look through his phone records to see who he's calling and don't be afraid to ask him for his phone with no warning. In a relationship you should be able to freely and without question (on both sides) request to see the other person's phone. You should both be "open books" to the other partner.

You can also use the mind control techniques I teach in my books OR listen to MP3 recordings that will stop him from cheating. STOP HIM FROM CHEATING